Certified Grief Coach Vivien
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Customized Support, a Roadmap, and Coping Strategies for Emerging from Grief

Home of The Narrative Cure

What is The Narrative Cure?
A set of actionable coping strategies and tools to guide you as you:
1 Revisit the grief and honor the loss.2 Reframe the losses and find context.3 Redefine your identity post-loss.4 Reclaim your memories, develop continuing bonds. 5 Recalibrate and reset your internal compass.6 Restructure your life to adapt to the loss(es).7 Restore stability and create new routines and paths.
"Grief must be witnessed." ~ David Kessler, Grief Expert

How The Narrative Cure Works

Something unexpected and miraculous happens when you explore your narrative--your losses, tragedies, grief, and victories, and the way they fit into the context of your greater life story. I learned this over the past twenty-seven years of working with my clients as a writer-biographer. For details, see www.writerviviencooper.com . As I safely guided clients on their return to the path that led them to tell their story, I witnessed something fascinating: one after another, they collected treasures--insights and lost pieces of themselves along the way. Little by little, they emerged transformed. Substantially healed. Grounded in a new, rock-solid structure. I realized that in the process of exploring their life story narratives, we accidentally stumbled upon something I came to think of as The Narrative Cure. It turns out I had been doing grief coaching all along and didn't even realize it--until I did.

For anyone who has been shaken to their core by grief, I've got your back!

Reach out to me for a free consultation. I will create a customized, personalized action plan and a roadmap to get your world turned right-side-up again.
Certified Grief Coach Vivien Cooper

The Approach Is Informed by...

27 Years of Guiding Life Story Narratives through Trauma, Tragedy, Victory
My Personal Experience of Surviving and Healing through a Long Season of Traumatic Grief
Grief Coach Certification Training
My Deeply Empathetic, Compassionate Nature
My Natural Insightfulness, Intuition, and Wisdom
Many Years of 12-Step Work

Transparent Fees

Book sessions as needed...$50.00/hour
Choose individual sessions or bring your own group and pay $35.00 per attendee.
Zoom and phone sessions available anywhere you reside. In-person sessions available to those living in or near Los Angeles Westside.
Fees paid at time of booking, in advance of session
Accepting Zelle, Cash-App, Venmo, PayPal, and bank wire. (48-hour cancellation required or fee is forfeited.)
Reach out to me for a free discovery call!
Individual or Group Sessions
My Own Journey with Grief
I have walked the path before you and I know the terrain.
Following a catastrophic double loss in 2006, I was frankly shocked by the impact of the grief. It affected me physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, foundationally. I had to schedule periods of crying and sleep in between working. The most surprising part was that I no longer felt tethered to the earth. I felt like I had been run over by a train.
I had no roadmap, no blueprint, no grief coach to support or guide me toward healing. I did have the love and support of friends, family, loved ones, God, and my 12-step community. I was somehow taken care of as I stumbled along and found my way to healing and restoration over time. But I needed more. I needed the kind of grief coaching I offer you now. Backed by experience and the wisdom that comes from walking the path myself. Wisdom grounded in grief coaching training. I would love to be there for you!

Potential Benefits of Grief Coaching

Feeling heard, seen, and understood Diminished sense of isolation Less tendency to disassociate Renewed connection to one's emotions Greater connection to ancestral mourning traditions Enhanced ability to interact with family and loved ones Greater willingness to accept support and help
Feeling supported and grounded Enhanced intuitive sense Deeper soulfulness & creativity Less despair during mourning Greater functionality Developing continuing bonds with deceased loved ones Deeper connection with one's faith Greater ability to recognize healing and tolerate setbacks
Enhanced ability to focus Better concentration Greater productivity A plan for managing physiological, emotional, and spiritual effects of grief Improved ability to balance responsibilities and mourning Better self-care habits
"Ring the bells that still can ring / forget your perfect offering / there is a crack in everything / that's how the light gets in." ~ Leonard Cohen

Differences Between Grief Coaching and Grief Counseling

I am a grief coach, not a counselor. Grief coaching focuses on providing nonclinical support to help individuals adapt to life after loss, emphasizing education, coping strategies, and personal growth. In contrast, grief counseling typically involves clinical assessment and treatment for mental health issues related to grief.

What My Clients Say

  • "A big, warm, compassionate heart does not even touch the surface of how Vivien holds another's whole system when they are experiencing grief, trauma, or heartache. She truly and consciously creates a safe space for all people in every encounter, be it friend, colleague, client--or literally even a random stranger in the check-out line at the grocery store."
  • ~ Jason Hughes, Author, Oone Man's Love Story "Vivien has a real gift for listening, She pays attention and she cares. She doesn’t stop at compassion--she wants to understand what’s actually going on and help you find clarity. Whether you’re dealing with something emotional, practical, or deeply personal, she stays with you and works through it with you until things start to make sense and a path forward becomes clear." ~ Billie King, Writer/Director/Producer, and Author of Billie, A Memoir "In choosing Vivien Cooper to help me write my memoir, I did not realize I was in the process of finding a true friend with a generous and understanding heart. Writing my story was not easy but Vivien helped me through it, whether it was to forgive, accept, or embrace the many moments that still weighed on my heart. Through it all, she was generous with her own life, with a warm kindness and humor. She has a class and dignity I have not found in any other person."
~ Mike Rafferty, Author of The Last Neightboorhood: A South Philly Memoir

Evolving Beliefs About Grief

Grief does not follow a linear path.
Grief may come in waves or cycles. It may even remain dormant for years before resurfacing.
Time may not completely heal all wounds.
Time does provide space for adaptation and integration. As I say, 'Time heals some of our pain. The rest we just learn to carry.'
Instead of feeling pressured to move on, we develop continuing bonds.
It is healthy to maintain continuing bonds and find ongoing meaningful connection with our departed loved ones.
Contact
323-605-1300
info@griefcoachvivien
Location
5482 Wilshire Bl., Unit 413 Los Angeles, CA 90036
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